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"I Need to Get Something Off My Chest"

A collection of thoughts throughout my path of breast cancer and a double mastectomy with reconstruction. 
So What's This Website All About?
Not Just Another Cancer Story...


My goal is to bring awareness to the things that they don’t talk to you about when you go through such traumatic experiences like cancer. How to handle questions from people at work, how to handle it when people think because you didn’t need chemo that you don’t REALLY have cancer. My hope is that people read it and feel inspired to ask more questions and have the tough conversations before treatment. So many people read my story and commented to me how they never really looked at a situation like mine through such a different light. The conversations in my head were spewed out on my posts for all to read. Only the things which most people would think are private “deep shower thoughts” were what I chose to write about. The unspeakable truths that we are all just expected to go through in silence and appear to be brave. Many people left Facebook comments to me saying how I really write like I talk, or that it sounded like I was inside their heads. That was what I was trying to convey! I didn’t want a story that was just a step-by-step journey through cancer, but a true reveal of the inner voice.
**This was once set up as a blog, but has been updated. Please start at Chapter 1**


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Chapter 13 - Be Thankful!

1/29/2023

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As I cut up the broccoli for one of the six dishes I made last night to bring to my sisters for Thanksgiving, I thought about what an accomplishment it was. Not that I was accomplished for making six dishes, but because I didn't hurt while doing it. Only a few months ago, it hurt my chest to use any kitchen tools, especially cutting veggies or even opening a jar. That may be why I made so many dishes all at once yesterday...I was thankful that I could cook, and it didn't hurt, and I didn't need to ask for help. I could reach up in the cabinets to get a bowl and lift the heavy pan into the oven.
If I had waited until the end of my journey with breast cancer to be thankful, I would have missed all the minor accomplishments that got me to the finish line. Think about some of your most significant achievements in your own life. Don't discount the smaller ones along the way that got you there. Give thanks along the way, every day, not just when everything is good. Every accomplishment, defeat, and time you got knocked down and could stand right back up...give thanks. Sometimes it takes a situation like mine to appreciate everyone around you and recognize their role in getting you to where you are today. Maybe it was a friend that you texted just to vent, and they listened, or your significant other being there to hug you after you had a bad day or your kids for encouraging you to be happy and that they would love and support you no matter what...give thanks. If it wasn't for all of you, I wouldn't have had the power to stand up after being knocked down; if it wasn't for all of you, I wouldn't have a life to fight for. Today and every day, I am thankful for you...even when things were not good, it was you and all of those little accomplishments along the way that motivated me, strengthened me, and gave me something to be grateful for. xoxoxoxo

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